Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Charles Tucker's Adoption Day-February 4, 2011

Last week, around Tuesday, Dee came home and said, "I am about to file our papers to adopt Charles Tucker? Are you ready to go to court any time they tell us to go in the next couple of weeks?" Me: "You mean any day we will adopt him? Wow! That was fast!" Sure, enough, Dee filed the papers on Wednesday and our court date was set for Friday. It usually takes about six months to adopt in the states once you get home, but ours only took five weeks. Way to go Dee for working so hard on this!! So that is why you have been staying late at work???!!

So Friday morning before our court appearance, we headed to the airport to pick up an adoption blog friend, Sara, whom I had never met in person. She came in town for the Created For Care retreat for the upcoming weekend, but decided to spend the day with us, before the retreat started. Well, Sara, I hope you enjoyed our crazy family!?!

 Yes, I got them to pose in their p.j.s and boots, I could not resist taking a picture before we headed to the airport! Can you believe my crew is cooperating so well these days!! So fun for this mama!

It was so neat to finally meet Sara face to face after a year of knowing her through her blog and occassional texts and phone conversations. She is about to go pick up one of Charles Tucker's best buddies from the babies home in Uganda. Please pray she gets a court date fast, hopefully in the next couple of weeks!!!

So around 10:30, we headed to the court house downtown to make Charles Tucker officially a DeBardeleben. We got there early just to make sure we did not miss our court appearance.We found a small corner for the kids to play and run around. Then around 11:30, we entered the Judges' chambers and within three minutes, Charles Tucker became part of our family! It was somewhat anticlimatic, with our kids making noise and acting out, but thankfully we brought Sara along to cry for us and help us realize the magic of it all. Charles Tucker DeBardeleben is officially an orphan no more!! That is definitely something to cheer about!!

Then daddy had to go make some copies before we left of all the documents, so we let the kids run around a little bit more. Look how excited Henry is about his new brother!!!

Let me present to you "Charles Tucker DeBardeleben"

Fear not, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name, you are mine. Isaiah 43:1

What a privilage it is to be chosen to be Charles Tucker's mommy. He is a precious little boy with a savior who loves him more than I will ever have the capacity to love him. He shows me more everyday what a blessing he is to our family. I am excited and thankful for the rode we have ahead of us and I pray the Lord will show me more and more how to best be the mommy he has called me to be to our new son.

**Sara and I then headed up to the Created for Care retreat to hang out with 250 other mommies who love orphans.. More on that later!

9 comments:

  1. How in the midst of all the late night chatter did I miss that this happened on FRIDAY!? Pecious child. A day that you fulfilled your purpose in simply doing what you were made to do in bringing glory to your Father in Heaven.

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  2. Yeah.... wonderful!!! How amazing is that? God certainly works out His timing perfectly!!

    I am excited to hear about the retreat. Wish I could have gone.... maybe next year! Where was it held? Does Andrea live in Georgia too?

    Your sweet three children are so cute! And they really are doing a great job posing for the camera!!

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  3. That's so great!!! Ours won't be til April :( Slightly jealous! ;)

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  4. YAY!!! So excited for ya'll!!! And LOVED getting to meet you and Charles Tucker last weekend! He is precious!!!

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  5. So thankful that it is official! And I wanted to say how much I appreciate your honesty about the good and the bad. It is good to read what is REAL!! :)

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  6. YAY!!! Thank you so much for letting me be part of an amazing day!! I LOVED that I got to meet you and be there for the finalization...your family is precious!! we all have our own crazy!! and really, your crazy isn't THAT crazy;)

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  7. Oh I LOVE this Melissa!! Beautiful... Congratulations friend. :-)

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  8. I am so happy for all of you! I will always love your family. God Bless you all.
    Carmen and Lawrence

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Thank you for your encouraging words!