Showing posts with label Fundraising. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fundraising. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Yard Sale Fundraiser/ Movement in Uganda/ Prayer for a friend

Even though my husband was not totally on board with this yard sale, I think I proved him wrong. The pros definitely outweighed the cons....but this will be the last yard sale I do for at least ten or twenty years! IT IS A LOT OF WORK!! Especially if you take donations, label each item, supply all the tables, pick up several loads of donations... all the while having two kids under four in the car for five days. I felt pretty guilty for driving them around town all week, but...it is worth it and I am so glad we did it! Oh, did I mention that yard sales are hard on your marriage? Well, that's another topic for another time.

The A. Family and the D. Family got a lot closer to one another, for good and for bad! Right? Brad and Brook?? We had a lot of fun actually!! I know you both are having with drawls by me not being over at your house every night. Oh, yeah, Brad didn't you want to do this once a month?? Ha!Ha!


The night before the sale we were up late labeling and then I could not fall asleep until 12:30 a.m., but then woke up at 3:30 a.m. and could not go back to sleep, I just laid there. I guess I was a little anxious about how everything would go. So I started our big yard sale day off with three hours of sleep. But, I was running on adrenalin the first part of the day, so I was fine until about 1:00 and then I felt like a truck hit me, but luckily we have Chick-fila sweet tea just down the road!!


About 11:00 a.m. the husbands did not think we were getting enough traffic, so they decide to drive to the store to get poster boards to make more signs. I wish I had taken a picture of one...they looked horrible, but they obviously worked. The signs said, "Huge Yard Sale...Everything Must Go...signed: Mo Money". Yes, "Mo Money" was Brad's idea!! Brook would you agree our husbands are too peas in a pod!!


Those of you who know me know that I would loose my head if it was not screw on correctly. Yes, I misplace most things in my life. So you will get a kick out of this story. This cute little Hispanic boy comes up to me and asks me "Is this bag is for sale...there is a phone in it?"...Yes, this bag was my pink backpack purse! I had left my purse in the middle of the clothes while I was trying to organize them...I am not sure if I told Dee about this one yet! Ooops!


Here is what the scene looked like. It took us two and half hours to set it up. Thanks for taking these pictures Brad. I was too nervous to bring my camera..I thought I would leave it out and run the risk of it being stolen. So glad I didn't bring it...considering my normal patterns.



My motto for the day was: "If you want something, you will leave with it! We will come to a price agreement! Everything is negotiable!!" I think it really worked...we did not have much left by Sunday afternoon!


Probably my favorite part of the day was meeting all the people in our community. They were all very encouraging about our adoption and some even felt compelled to give more because they thought it was such a good cause. I made several connections with neighbors I had never met before and they were all very excited about their new soon to be neighbor, Charles Tucker. Some even asked why we wanted to adopt and it was neat to be able to share what God has done in our lives. I handed out a sheet of paper explaining our reason for adoption when people seemed interested. I believe...there was a bigger reason for doing this yard sale other than the money we made. It really seemed to bring the neighborhood together in a neat way. I had no idea they all would be so supportive. I was greatly encouraged and I believe this news was a blessing to others. I feel like it brought orphan awareness and hopefully a fresh perspective on Christianity to those that have a bad taste in their mouth for "Jesus".


I want to give a special thanks to the fifteen families who were able to donate to our adoption yard sale last Saturday. Thank you to Beth, Cameron, Stewart, Frida, Marisa, Shelley, Amy, Amanda, Becky, Jenn, Corrie, Hannah G., Hannah H., and a couple more families in our neighborhood. Their "junk" become many other people's "treasures" this past weekend. Isn't that what they say, "Someones junk is someone else's treasure".

All the "junk" that you all donated made $850.00! We only had a few large pieces of furniture...mostly clothes, shoes, books, frames, toys, and some knickknacks, so $850.00 was a lot more than I thought we would make! We are $850.00 closer to paying for our trip!! God is so providing in many, many ways!


My across the street neighbor, Beth, also made some cookies, muffins, lemon squares, and pound cakes to sale too! Beth, we appreciated your constant support throughout the whole weekend, besides, we needed someone to keep Brad straight. Ha! Ha! Thank you for everything Beth!!


Another way the Lord encouraged me this weekend was by allowing me to meet this lady who offered to do our family portrait for free to get her business going. She needs to take pictures of families in order to advertise. I was like...yum....yes...Of course!! I was thinking does she know that is one of the greatest things she could have said? She obviously reads my mind. Or God really does care about the little things. If you have been following my blog for a while, you will remember the last time we tried to get a family picture. If you don't remember...go here. Once again the Lord is providing!


It was a great weekend Brook! Yes, I said weekend, we continued the sale on Sunday, I am glad we did...it was practically all gone by 3:00 p.m. Like I said the pros out weighed the cons. Thanks for convincing me to do it three weeks ago! (don't say anything Dee)



***The court dates in Uganda went very well! Two families that I know of got visas to go home!! Which is amazing!! The other two families that are associated with our babies home are waiting on another court date to get a verbal and written ruling, so they can have custody of their children. Until then, they have to stay in the babies homes. They can still go visit them everyday, so it is not that bad. Oh, and my friend's daughter was able to wear her pretty smocked dress!! Yeah, its the little things the Lord cares about. Don't you love this? The lawyer felt like their hearings went well. So this is very encouraging! It is very important that things keep moving with the Ugandan Courts. If those before us are doing well...we will be right behind them!! Still anxiously waiting a court date. Our social worker updates us weekly on how things are going, she seems very hopeful we will go in October. So we will see!


***Please pray for our friends over at House of Curls. Doug was at work when a fork lift fell on his leg. He is in surgery now. Please pray that the blood would continue to flow to his foot. Pray also that his wife Jenna has God given strength to handle the situation. I believe the Lord gives special grace in tough situations like this. I can't stop thinking about them....so tough.

Monday, September 13, 2010

Do we have a court date yet?

No. )=

We are hoping we will find out this upcoming week. Once we know our court date, we will begin to prepare to travel.

A couple of days ago, I realized Charles Tucker's birthday is in two weeks, September 25, 2010, he will be two. So I sent him a special mickey mouse musical card and a toy car for $8.00 through the postal service that will hopefully arrive on his birthday...but probably not likely considering it takes 10-15 days to get there. I think I have about 14 days to spare. The alternative was to pay 130.00 for UPS so it would arrive promptly in a week, but I felt the money was better saved for our plane ticket to get to him in person!! I will just have to pray that it gets there and doesn't get lost between the 4,000 miles to Ug*nda. In between purchasing his gift and the UPS store, I forgot to take a picture of the gift so we could remember it and show him when he is older what we got him for his second birthday...Oh well, "can't document everything"... as my husband would say!

When we first got our referral, two and half months ago, we thought there might be a chance of us traveling in September to be there for his second birthday. Well, it is still not God's timing for us to be with him, so we are waiting, waiting, and waiting some more. Do you notice a theme? When you sign up for international adoption you will experience a lot of WAITING. So be prepared! Yes, we are waiting on the Ug*ndan Government to assign us a judge and a court date, but we are ultimately waiting on God's timing for us to be with our third child. Waiting on God's timing is never easy, but Oh...so worth it!!

While we wait, I have been trying to do all I can now, so when we receive a court date we will just have to put everything in our bag and hop on a plane. We might only have three weeks to prepare to take our whole family to Africa, so that requires lots of thinking ahead. I am completely a "list person" and I love marking things off...it is therapeutic! I have two lists, one is for things I can do now before we receive our travel date and the second list is what I need to do once we receive our travel date.

One of the things on the first list is "clothes for travel". We need to make sure we have summer clothes, but fairly conservative and ones that provide more coverage because of the risk of getting malaria from a mosquito. We will be wearing bug spray every time we head outside our guest house to help prevent mosquito bits. And we can't wear skin so soft, it has to be full of "Deet", so lots of chemicals, but I guess it's worth it to prevent malaria...a disease people die from all over the world.

I also have a couple of things I want to make for Charles Tucker. One of those is a "lovey" that he can love on and help with his transition into our family. Both of my kids, received a special "lovey" when they were born and they continue to love on their "bankys" when they sleep and need something to comfort them besides mommy and daddy.

Henry, 13 months old, loving on his "banky"!

Mary Taylor, three weeks old, loving on her "banky"! Henry gave her a "blanky" and a "paci" as his gift to her. His two favorite things as of age two. Mary Taylor gave him a "Diseal", a Thomas the Train....another favorite, as of age two!


So I thought Charles Tucker would like his own special "banky"! Yesterday was the day I decided to mark one more thing of my list. My first attempt at making a "banky" with mitered corners, harder than it looks! Don't look to closely...the seems are definitely a big mess, but C.T. won't care!

 
This Saturday we are having a joint yard sale to raise money for our adoption expenses. It will be down the street from our house from 8:00-4:00, please email me if you want more information. We are also accepting donations from people who live in the Atlanta area. If you have a pile of junk you are trying to get ride of, email me and I will come pick it up! All the proceeds from the donations will go straight to bring Charles Tucker home! Hopefully sooner than later.

It's time for me to go to bed...we have a full day tomorrow as always!

Monday, March 29, 2010

Flutterbugs


I love my new "Africa" shirts I ordered from Julie over at Flutterbugs. She does amazing work! Julie is adopting an African American child domestically through Covenant Care. I do not know Julie personally, but we discovered we knew each other through my sister-in-law Leslie who attends her father's church in Maco, Georgia. What a small world! Julie has an amazing heart and her blog encourages me greatly! What a small world!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Fundraisier: Are you adopting, pregnant, or know someone that is?

April and Jim are in the process of adopting from Uganda. They are raising money to bring their sweet girl, Isabel, home through various fundraisers. Donate $5.00 and you can be in the running to win this fabulous baby basket full of things you will need for having a new baby or toddler in your home. This basket would also be a great gift to a friend! All the donations will go directly to bringing home sweet Isabel. Go to their blog, Our Journey to Isabel to learn more about how God is leading them.


This is just an example of what the basket will look like.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Blessings

      I have so many blessing in life. One of my favorite blessings are my parents. They gave me the greatest gift growing up and that is the knowledge of my Savior. My parents lived the 'gospel' in our home. For example, my mother taught me to "put myself in other people's shoes". In highschool, when I would gossip about someone, she would always defend the person I was talking about. She would say, "Maybe they were having a bad day, or maybe they don't feel good about themselves." At the time, it annoyed me, but she was Christ to me, she had compassion to the 'least of these.' And my father was always inviting the whole world over to our house. He would talk to anyone and always tried to include people in whatever we were doing, like pool tournaments, lunch, dinner, movie, or just to hang out. As a teenager, this drove me crazy, but he was being 'Christ's hands and feet' to people around us by loving them. When God opened my eyes in college to my own sin and I realized how big of a Savior I truly do have, this knowledge was made alive in me. Their Savior truly became my rescuer and deliverer! God used my parents to make me who I am today. I am forever thankful to them!
      Now my parents are grandparents twice over and are about to have a third grandchild through adoption! Once my parents realized God had truly called us to increase our family through adoption, they jumped right on board! God is opening their hearts to the beauty in adoption too!  I am so thankful to my gracious mother  who has been working very hard to raise money to bring our third child home. She has designed stationary and magnetic paper dolls for people to purchase. All the money goes toward the adoption of our child in Uganda. If you are interested, please go to the website, Kaki Husaidia (Kaki Helps in Swahili).

Friday, January 29, 2010

Buy a candle help an orphan have a forever family!

My blog friend, April and her husband Jim are hoping to adopt from Uganda too. They are doing a fundraiser to help bring in the funds to adopt. They are trusting God that he will provide the money to adopt. One of the ways she is raising money is through selling Gold Canyon candles. Order a candle for a friend for Valentines Day! Gold Canyon candles make the whole house smell good! If you are interested, go to Jim and April's blog to find out more about the candles and how God is using them to provide a home for an orphan in Uganda.

Friday, December 4, 2009

God will provide


    As a former third grade teacher, I love doing crafts, making things for my kids, and creating projects for myself around the house to keep me from doing the things I need to be doing like cleaning and cooking. My obsession comes from my mother, Kathy Jackson, (pictured to your right with Henry) who will also stay up all hours of the night creating masterpieces. Lately, my mother has been making stationary for herself and others. She gave all of the girls in our family personalized stationary for Christmas last year. Over the past several months she decided to use her gifts to help raise money for her church in Birmingham. Along with the stationary, she also sold magnetic paper dolls for boys and girls. She brought Henry a set to play with over Thanksgiving. Too cute! They have boy clothes and girl clothes to choose from. The paper dolls come in many different races for all kinds children!The day before the fundraiser, she calls me and tells me that she wants to give all the proceeds to bring home her Ugandan grandchild! I was thrilled that she wanted to be apart of this journey, by raising money for us to bring our child home! She sold a lot and raised $280.00 for our adoption fund. I am going to try to add these products to my blog so I can continue to raise money. Thank you mom!
This is the personalized stationary.

 This is the magnetic paper dolls.

  All the profits go to our Ugandan baby!

     Many of you might be wondering, "How much does it cost to adopt from Uganda?"
Well, it costs about $22,000.00 (we have included the price of Henry going with us too, so it is a little bit cheaper if you do not take your kids).  The federal government gives us a tax credit of 12,150.00 to adopt a child international or domestic (they give this to anyone regardless of income). Our agency, Generations, gives us a $3,000.00 scholarship. The remaining cost is $6,850.00. So we are praying that God provides the $6,850.00 for us to adopt.
     We are not raising support right now, because we are praying that God will provide this money through Dee's income. We are praying that God will provide the money through our ability to save the money. Hopefully, all our savings will be able to fund this adoption instead of going to fix cars, emergency visits to the dog hospital in the middle of the night, water damage repair because our toilet overflowed into our basement, lock smiths, speeding tickets, and the many problems we seem to have with our 1940s house.
      God is also teaching us how to spend money more wisely, especially me. We are eating out less often, buying less stuff (unless it is from a thrift store, we have great thrift stores in Atlanta! I am a thrift store addict!) and trying to only buy things that we really need. This is hard to do in our materialistic world, but God is showing us how stuff gets in the way of loving him and other people. God is changing me! Yeah! It is liberating!

      I can already see how God is providing. This last month we did not have very many extra expenses and we were able to save money toward our adoption. God is making our steps firm! He is also providing the little things. Since God has given me a passion for orphans and a desire to adopt, I realized that in order to raise the money, I was going to have to stop wishing I had the perfect furniture for my house. I realized that if God wants us to have chairs for our kitchen/dining room table, an extra side table in the living room, a piece for our foyer, etc., then he is going to have to provide them for free or really cheap. The next day I went to visit my grandmother,Cletis Jackson, in Dunwoody, GA. She is notorious for trying to give away all her stuff to her grandchildren. She has a lot of stuff in that house! Sometimes you can find great treasures! Well, this day I went home with a bench and a coat hanger for my foyer and a side table for my living room! Thank you God! You care about the little things and you really do want us to adopt! This is of you! I was so encouraged! Thank you Grandmother for allowing God to use you in providing for our Ugandan baby!
This is a picture of my sweet Grandmother
and my beautiful sister Amelia.
  
Since we have been married, God has always provided just enough for us, not too much, not too little. Dee was in law school when we had our first child, Henry. We did not have an income then, we just lived off loans. This was a step of faith to have a child in law school, but God provided. Its funny, we didn't realize it at the time, but we never had any major problems with our house or cars, like we do now. That is because, God was providing according to our needs. Then when Dee actually made an income, we started having lots of unexpected expenses, and we have never been able to save very much. We have not made unwise choices (of course I know we have, but overall), but God did not want us to have too much. He obviously knew that having an abundance of money might be a hindrance to us spiritually. So he has kept us very humbled! :) So, I am confident that God will provide exactly what we need, when we need it!
  
"Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share."
1 Timothy 6:16-18

"Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."
Matthew 10:29-31

**We have sent in our home study packet and we hope to hear from them on Monday. Then we can schedule a day for the home study agent to come to our house! I am excited to see how God is going to provide through this process!