This is another adoption blog I have been following for the last couple of months. I took this from the journey , written by Suzanne Mayernick.
"3 years ago a mother left her premature infant on the steps of a
yucky african hospital. I wish I knew her, so that I could ask "what
could be so bad that you could drop her and walk away?" i CANNOT
imagine the feelings that she must have felt while walking to that
hospital thinking that she would never see her again. after leaving
her, she had continuous reminders of her decision........recovery from
delivery, milk coming in, who know what else?!? a hospital nurse
found the child, put her in the back room, named her Josephine, put a
kerosene lamp in the bed with her (for warmth), and began feeding her
mush out of a coffee mug, (there were no bottles because there was no
childcare facility in this particular hospital) FOR 10 MONTHS this
sweet little angel lay in that bed, everyone around her expecting her
to die. She never did. So, they sent her to a baby cottage in
Jinja Uganda. She had been there for 2 weeks, and in walks Katie for
her very first mission trip to Africa. She instantly fell in love
with this wee one. She has droopy eyes because the muscles of her
eyelids do not work properly.
While was Katie was there, Josephine got malaria and Katie spent the
last week of her stay back at the hospital with her sleeping on the
floor and praying over her without ceasing. She survived and ended
back at the baby's home. At a year old, Josephine could do nothing but lay on
her back and not bring her arms out past the perimeters of her body.
She had missed MANY developmental milestones from being in the
hospital bed for the first year of her life. When Katie returned to
Uganda for her first year to live there, she spent many hours caring
for Josephine because she was so severely malnutritioned. She is 3
years old now, and ON HER OWN progressed to crawling, playing the
xylophone, shaking morraccas, but has limited speech. Katie had told
us all about her when we visited Uganda so we could not wait to go
visit this little miracle on the day that we went to baby's home. Josephine
and Grace bonded instantly and I left there feeling like she had a
"long way to go" to EVER having somewhat of a normal life. My
mother's intuition looked into that child and thought "she has come a
LONG way, but has a LONG way to go" . Katie has always been so
hopeful for her and has always said that she believes that she is
going to THRIVE one day. I left very VERY doubtful.
Through MUCH MUCH prayer and coaxing from Grace......we have decided
to make Josephine a Mayernick and bring her to the US so that she can
thrive. Our first obstacle will be cosmetic surgery to lift her
eyelids so that she can see properly. After that, I have a
significant plan of action.....OT, PT, and speech therapy.....here we
come!! I have struggled with fear for several months.....special
needs with 6 other children?!? The Lord has given me peace time after
time. His words in my ears keep telling me that THIS is what I am
called to do......and when HE returns I will be doing EXACTLY what I
desire to be doing......raising children to love HIM wholeheartedly.
I am not really the one who provides ANYTHING for them....HE is, and I
will just stay in prayer KNOWING that we will NEVER leave us of
FORSAKE us. I have now transitioned from fear to excitement.
Through my fear I have thought of all of the pros and cons. And the
pros far outweigh the cons. Actually, most of the cons are my
selfishness not wanting to give my life "away".
We are hoping to have her home before Christmas. Please
join us in prayer for sweet lil Josie Love (as my kids have named
her). She is Joshua's age but smaller than Caleb (18 months). I love
you all and can't wait for you to meet her."
yucky african hospital. I wish I knew her, so that I could ask "what
could be so bad that you could drop her and walk away?" i CANNOT
imagine the feelings that she must have felt while walking to that
hospital thinking that she would never see her again. after leaving
her, she had continuous reminders of her decision........recovery from
delivery, milk coming in, who know what else?!? a hospital nurse
found the child, put her in the back room, named her Josephine, put a
kerosene lamp in the bed with her (for warmth), and began feeding her
mush out of a coffee mug, (there were no bottles because there was no
childcare facility in this particular hospital) FOR 10 MONTHS this
sweet little angel lay in that bed, everyone around her expecting her
to die. She never did. So, they sent her to a baby cottage in
Jinja Uganda. She had been there for 2 weeks, and in walks Katie for
her very first mission trip to Africa. She instantly fell in love
with this wee one. She has droopy eyes because the muscles of her
eyelids do not work properly.
While was Katie was there, Josephine got malaria and Katie spent the
last week of her stay back at the hospital with her sleeping on the
floor and praying over her without ceasing. She survived and ended
back at the baby's home. At a year old, Josephine could do nothing but lay on
her back and not bring her arms out past the perimeters of her body.
She had missed MANY developmental milestones from being in the
hospital bed for the first year of her life. When Katie returned to
Uganda for her first year to live there, she spent many hours caring
for Josephine because she was so severely malnutritioned. She is 3
years old now, and ON HER OWN progressed to crawling, playing the
xylophone, shaking morraccas, but has limited speech. Katie had told
us all about her when we visited Uganda so we could not wait to go
visit this little miracle on the day that we went to baby's home. Josephine
and Grace bonded instantly and I left there feeling like she had a
"long way to go" to EVER having somewhat of a normal life. My
mother's intuition looked into that child and thought "she has come a
LONG way, but has a LONG way to go" . Katie has always been so
hopeful for her and has always said that she believes that she is
going to THRIVE one day. I left very VERY doubtful.
Through MUCH MUCH prayer and coaxing from Grace......we have decided
to make Josephine a Mayernick and bring her to the US so that she can
thrive. Our first obstacle will be cosmetic surgery to lift her
eyelids so that she can see properly. After that, I have a
significant plan of action.....OT, PT, and speech therapy.....here we
come!! I have struggled with fear for several months.....special
needs with 6 other children?!? The Lord has given me peace time after
time. His words in my ears keep telling me that THIS is what I am
called to do......and when HE returns I will be doing EXACTLY what I
desire to be doing......raising children to love HIM wholeheartedly.
I am not really the one who provides ANYTHING for them....HE is, and I
will just stay in prayer KNOWING that we will NEVER leave us of
FORSAKE us. I have now transitioned from fear to excitement.
Through my fear I have thought of all of the pros and cons. And the
pros far outweigh the cons. Actually, most of the cons are my
selfishness not wanting to give my life "away".
We are hoping to have her home before Christmas. Please
join us in prayer for sweet lil Josie Love (as my kids have named
her). She is Joshua's age but smaller than Caleb (18 months). I love
you all and can't wait for you to meet her."
wow, so awesome..I just went back and ready HOW your heart has changed through this journey...I'm with your hubby..I want 4 bio kids (got it) and two adopted (almost got it)...praying for our #6 to come from Ethiopia too...maybe some day :) kristi
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ReplyDeleteHi Melissa!I found your link on Kristi J's site (bringing lucy home:) and it caught my eye that you are in Atlanta. We live in Forsyth, about 1 hour south of Atlanta. We have 3 bio kids and jut LAST NIGHT were approved with AGCI to adopt from Ethiopia!!! I know of a family in Atlanta who have adopted 6 kids...I thought you may like to know about them. They go to Perimeter Church and you can follow their journey at www.mcbabies.com My husband and I want to start an adoption fellowship group in the middle Georgia area to meet a few times a year. Would you be interested in being a part of it? You can follow our journey at www.flitterbugs.blogspot.com Your kiddos are so cute..love the smocking. I am sewing to help with adoption costs, and am thinking of taking smocking/french heirloom orders for Easter.Love a southern kid :)
ReplyDeleteHi, there! I found your blog through Katie's. We jsut got back from Uganda a few weeks (3 weeks before Josie Love) with our little boy Asher. IN fact, we are good friends with the Mayernicks, Katie, and the whole gang. All that to say, my family is from Birmingham and is related to DeBardelebens there (My dad is Prince McDavid). I wonder if you all are related. What a small world that we just got back from Amani and you are just beginning. Please let me know if I can answer any questions. We were able to have a "quick" trip," and I was there for six weeks. I will be praying for you and for God's provision on your journey. Blessings to you! (You can read about our adoption on mightytosave-keckadoption.blogspot.com.)
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